What if what you perceive as a weakness or defect, may actually be your super power? “Anything you can’t embrace about yourself gets to use you!” I was sitting in the Columbus Circle amphitheater in Manhattan with about 2000 other people. This was my first weekend in my training with the Institute of Integrative Nutrition in the fall of 2006. A petite woman was commanding this huge stage, her words shook all 2001 of us into attention. Her name was Debbie Ford, the author of the Dark Side of the Light Chasers and the founder of Integrative Coaching. She was telling us her story through addiction and her journey to redemption. She recalled a particular day in a middle of a workshop in front of everybody, when a woman said out loud, “you’re a bitch!”